Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 9h ago

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Everything Everywhere All at Once

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 12h ago

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I figured it out… UNC is the communities Tyler Perry 🤣🤣🤣 #DirectJeet

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UNC @XSR5400 12h ago

As a nigga that doesn’t care about male thoughts and feelings!!! Yall niggas need to SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! #Subjeet

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 12h ago

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I mean you could be insecure or it’s just your preference. If you’re not into that and someone ask you. Just simply say no. Now if you get all rah rah about it…. There might be a lil something else going on

Father @Big_Father314 12h ago

Well cause what if she says you’re insecure because you won’t be more open to it, like other heterosexual men are ?🤷🏾‍♂️

I admit it… that was a little extreme though 😂

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 12h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

And what’s the point of having a boundary if you not finna stand on business if it’s violated

JT @_jt 12h ago

However, imposing a restriction on someone else's behavior is a form of control, not a true boundary, and it frequently stems from insecurity.

A true boundary focuses entirely on YOUR actions, choices, and what you will or will not tolerate...

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 12h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

I guess. I just don’t know why you’d position it like that to your partner. It’d come off a type of way to your partner I would imagine.

Father @Big_Father314 12h ago

Preferences can’t be boundaries ?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 13h ago

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That would be neither. That’s a sexual preference.

Father @Big_Father314 13h ago

So is not being into prostate orgasms a boundary or insecurity?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 13h ago

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That wasn’t an option 😂

Father @Big_Father314 13h ago

I’m not insecure towards people. My art is the only thing, because I’m a perfectionist and I can tell the mistakes of it.

I don’t feel any insecurities to people tho

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 14h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Exactly. What is that boundary protecting?

ImTheKangBih @KangRioEFBC 14h ago

No! But if you have to set up boundaries to secure the safety and security of the longevity of the relationship then YES it is..

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 14h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

I also think @itsdejalee had some very compelling points about shadow work that would be beneficial for people to utilize. Just thought I’d shout out my dawg.

Brosiabee @Ambrosia 14h ago

Well upon my review Kang seems to have a point here, he seems to be very in touch with who he is and has some emotional maturity in his relationships...while Father is "I said what I said" type of guy. I think we will need to keep an eye on this as profiles are being built amongst the platform. I will keep you posted with any new information

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 15h ago

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@Tracy Anita is always a good choice. And Sade

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos 15h ago

Spotify

Good Love

Anita Baker

Sweet Love

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 15h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

If he asks nicely I’ll pull my Toxicteer brother off his ahh 😂

Brosiabee @Ambrosia 15h ago

@Big_Father314 said kang got spinned by a bih … @KangRioEFBC said dude is a baddie … just wanted to catch the ladies up 😂😂

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 15h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

I am aware you’re not saying that. But I think it’s the underlying issue. We all have insecurities. I think men feel chump being honest about it

Father @Big_Father314 16h ago

I’m not seeing where the disconnect is.

Where am I saying that I’m afraid my wife will cheat or leave me?

If this was a Muslim couple, nobody would be saying they’re insecure 😂😂

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 16h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

I think the entire conversation comes down to the last word in that definition. “That make you question your safety”. To me the safety of your relationship is the part you’d be questioning.

Father @Big_Father314 16h ago

By definition? No. I know myself pretty well. I am who I am, and I know what I’m not.

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 16h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

That’s the only part for me. I’d have accept that is her desire and act accordingly. I’m not finna negotiate my desires against hers.

Father @Big_Father314 16h ago

I definitely agree w the “why would you even say//ask me that” part. But like I said, there’s a million ways to catch up.. you skipped every stop and went to dinner ???

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 16h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

That man spittin’!!! It’s all performative!!!

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Dr. Ca$$ @cass 16h ago

I don’t understand men that are so obsessed with being tough or looking tough. All that aggression outwardly expressed to the public just shows how much you hate yourself and your situation. A man is supposed to have internal peace and be able to control himself accordingly. Most of these men are just adult boys. It’s OK to be peaceful, calm and cool. Being dangerous is a tactic that all men should have, but only show when the time is needed.

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 16h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Do you have any insecurities?

Father @Big_Father314 16h ago

Shiiiiid… you can be friends through social media, text, ft, zoom, Skype…. Even emails. You don’t need a dinner to be friends.

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 17h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

You keep saying “need”. Nobody need to do anything. If they’re friends they may just want to catchup. I’m not telling my wife no. That is not to say I won’t feel a type of way etc. But if it’s something she has a desire to do… that is the problem. Not that she went. Why does she desire to do it? Same as Aaron Rodgers fiancé going to get popped. I don’t care about the pop. I want to know why you want that. And why you think you can say that to me???

Father @Big_Father314 17h ago

But we are speaking hypothetically if your spouse ASKED you, so me saying no isn’t controlling… it’s my answer.

No way did I say my wife can’t speak to or know any exes. I have exes I’m cool w… THAT would be controlling.

Now give us a scenario where your spouse and their ex need to communicate that requires more than a FT//Zoom ?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 17h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

I guess since it’s “a community” we not following the pod??? 😂

Dee’Wun da Demon @Dee1ndonly 17h ago

Why is this even up for discussion?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 17h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

You think you can stop her if she wants to?

Benji Mims @bmims330 22h ago

Listen, call me whatever if my wife ask me if she can go on a dinner date? With her ex???? FUUUUCK no lmao ain’t that much trust in the world. This nigga used to stick dick in you 😂 the hell?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 17h ago

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Ebony @Ebony 17h ago

Girl don’t even bother..
Them niggas are
The Toxicteers
Peep how they’ll keep on
Agreeing with each other 🤣🤣

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 17h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Sure, but I don’t think “dinner” is the issue. If she wants to cheat, she’s gonna cheat. The deeper issue is her desire to go or be in that scenario. If she doesnt have that as a boundary in relationships. You run the risk of creating resentment or coming across insecure.

Father @Big_Father314 18h ago

No. It just speaks to character. Dinner is an intimate affair. There is no ‘ship’ that requires that level of intimacy between a spouse and ex partner.

If I were to say no my wife can’t speak to any of her exes or men in general, that would be controlling.

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 18h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Exactly!!! But they’ll tell us we toxic 😂

Dr. Ca$$ @cass 18h ago

Let ppl do them, if they lose you in the process, its fate.

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 18h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

It can be. What is the reason you don’t agree? Are you worried that she may cheat?

Father @Big_Father314 18h ago

A person not agreeing w their significant other having dinner w another person they used to be romantically tied to, is insecure ?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 18h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

My wife can go wherever she wants.

That doesn’t mean there’s no consequences.

The fact that she desires to go have dinner with her ex needs to be explored

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 18h ago

Joe Budden Podcast

If your boundaries are an attempt to control another person they stem from insecurities.

Father @Big_Father314 23h ago

Niggas don’t know the difference between boundaries and insecurities

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

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Dee’Wun da Demon @Dee1ndonly 1 day ago

Since we’re doing #ToxicTuesday

Tell me a time where you did something petty or toxic to your significant other or partner at the time

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

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Muna @munayy 1 day ago

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

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Feels better, right 😂

Muna @munayy 1 day ago

Ok I’m done

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

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You’re absolutely right 😮‍💨

Emeyekae @Mik 1 day ago

Tone Bone, don’t talk to the weirdos 😭😭😭😭

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Men who get women don’t even acknowledge that behavior. It’s irrelevant 🤷🏾‍♂️

It’s a spectator sport

Pastor Peace @innerpeace 1 day ago

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 1 day ago

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EBT Youngboy @dadamnstore 1 day ago

I hate niggas posting pictures
I hate you gym niggas
I hate you in a good mood ass niggas
I hate you niggas with hair
I hate you niggas with small shirts
I hate coffee
I hate chocolate

And most importantly I probably hate you

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 3 days ago

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Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 4 days ago

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Grand opening grand closing

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 4 days ago

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If you see these dogs in your front yard, just know I’m upstairs going hard #classic

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 5 days ago

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There be a lot of performance IJS #SubJeet

Rah @rah 5 days ago

😮‍💨

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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UNC @XSR5400 6 days ago

AYE PIGSKIN NIGGAS!!!!

IF I CANT TALK ABOUT TIDDIES AND COOCHIE ON THE TL THEN YALL GOTTA GO TALK YALL SPORTSBALLL IN THIS COMMUNITY!!! https://acommunity.com/podding_hub?c=the-sports-room&section=podding

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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B Henney @itstheplug 6 days ago

Whos ur team? Ol I like the Browns ass nigga lol

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

Joe Budden Podcast

You
Misspelled “ Belt to Ass “
😮‍💨

B Henney @itstheplug 6 days ago

Ok we lost, so what!!!!

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

Joe Budden Podcast

Looking real subpar

MercedesMaybvch @MercedesMaybvch 6 days ago

Yea I'm not afraid.... 🤷🏽‍♀️😭 😭 😭

"Best team in the League". Had to hear that BS all summer lol

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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This your “SUPER TEAM”?!?!

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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These jokers hittin

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Druski on a run!

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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#SubJeet 👀

Dr. Ca$$ @cass 6 days ago

Heard you spent your summers in Miami… at somebody’s house… That you didn’t buy…

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Dropping like flies 😳

JCP @Jordeci 6 days ago

The 49ers are snake bitten. Christ 🤦🏾‍♂️…

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Ouch 🤕

ImTheKangBih @KangRioEFBC 6 days ago

Gawd damn!!!!

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Anything you can do … 😂

MercedesMaybvch @MercedesMaybvch 6 days ago

got damn!!! that interception!

I like that celly! lmaoooo

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Kyle Shanahan can call them plays

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Is it me or this broadcast is off 🧐

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Wonder why Elle left ESPN?

Tony Rojos @tonyrojos · 6 days ago

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Picture that with a Kodak #DirectJeet

UNC @XSR5400 6 days ago

This nigga begging!!! #DirectJeet